When I was in high school I felt like a loner, I would hop from one group of friends to another not really feeling like I fit in with any of them. Part of the problem was that I did not know how to establish healthy relationships with them; I didn’t have role models to show me that. I spent a large part of my young adulthood feeling the same, not feeling like I fit in with anyone.
Fast forward to today and I can happily say that I have the friends I’ve always dreamed of, they are beyond anything I could have imagined, they fill me in ways that I cannot describe. They are a true blessing in my life and are my abundance in many ways. They each have their own character yet the heart of them all is gold, best of all-they are human-imperfections and all and I truly love them.
I know that there are people who, just like me at one point, wish for good friends, and I can say that it is possible, very much so. But the first thing that we must invest in in order to attract amazing people is ourselves, we must learn to be friends with ourselves first and then we will naturally attract other people who match our energy and value.