Love loses when we allow our unproductive habits to run our life. We lose contact with what really matters and become robots of unconscious behavior. When we tune ourselves to the frequency of love we tune ourselves to flowing without reason, our actions become heart-based rather than mind-based.
There is, of course, a healthy balance between the two(mind and heart), however, the heart center must lead and if it is out of balance, so is the rest of our life. Balance, as in any other aspect of life, is key to leading a harmonious life. This is why it is important to be aware of our day-to-day actions to see where we can release things that no longer serve us. Leading with love in all actions is a win-win.